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Kvetch or Complaint

by Beth Nadis

This has always been one of my favorite cartoons. To me, it highlights the importance of open communication; of sharing our opinions, needs, concerns, and feelings.  Effective communication isn’t easy, but it’s fundamental.


As President, I am eager to know what our members are thinking and feeling.  So, you have an idea, constructive comment, or opinion you’d like to share please feel free to contact me.  Hopefully it’s a kvetch, rather than a complaint, but both windows are always open.

Beth Nadis (

Hanukkah Resources

by Nancy Kaplan



Wonderful resources are available to enhance and enrich your celebration of Hanukkah.  Here are a few online resources:

Click here to view Hanukkah Nights from The Jewish Theological Seminary.

Click here to explore Hanukkah with the scholars from The Shalom Hartman Institute.

Click here to view the Pardes Hanukkah companion.

Click here to access Hanukkah materials from My Jewish Learning.

Click here to view resources from Hadar.


There is also great printed material for the festival of Lights.  Here are recommended books:

A Different Light: The Big Book of Hanukkah

A Different Light: The Hanukkah Book of Celebration

by Noam Zion and Barbara Spectre

Hanukkah (2nd edition): The Family Guide to Spiritual Celebration
by Dr. Ron Wolfson and Joel Lurie Grishaver


The Jewish Way: Living the Holidays

by Rabbi Irving (Yitz) Greenberg


The Jewish Holidays: A Guide & Commentary

by Michael Strassfeld


Celebrating the Jewish Year – The Winter Holidays (Chanukkah, Tu B’Shevat, Purim)

by Paul Steinberg


Thanksgiving Prayers

by Rabbi Steven Rubenstein


Beth Ahm would like to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving.  While Thanksgiving isn’t Jewish, giving thanks certainly is. 
We offer these resources (click here) for your Thanksgiving celebration.


Interfaith Vigil and Remembrance

by David Stryk

Last night’s interfaith vigil was a powerful evening of community unity and powerful comments from a wide array of religious leaders. Their comments were heartfelt and thoughtful. Beth Ahm was, as usual, fortunate to be represented by our Rabbi who likewise addressed a crowded synagogue. The end of the night included a candle lighting ceremony. I had the incredible honor of lighting a candle on behalf of Beth Ahm for Melvin Wax. Lighting a candle for an 88-year-old, whose life was cut short in synagogue was not easy. We all know how Mr. Wax died but I wanted to know about the life of the person who our congregation was collectively memorializing. I also wanted to make sure I shared with you the story of this gentleman's life (as described by the Washington Post). He would have been a welcome and warm addition to our congregation...or any congregation.

Melvin Wax was the first to arrive at New Light Congregation in Pittsburgh’s Squirrel Hill neighborhood — and the last to leave.

Wax, who was in his late 80s, was among those killed when a gunman entered the synagogue Saturday and opened fire during Sabbath services. Fellow members of the congregation, which rented space in the lower level of the Tree of Life Synagogue, says Wax was a kind man and a pillar of the congregation, filling just about every role except cantor.

Myron Snider spoke late Saturday about his friend who would stay late to tell jokes with him. He said “Mel,” a retired accountant, was unfailingly generous.

“He was such a kind, kind person,” said Snider, chairman of the congregation’s cemetery committee. “When my daughters were younger, they would go to him, and he would help them with their federal income tax every year. Never charged them.

“He and I used to, at the end of services, try to tell a joke or two to each other. Most of the time they were clean jokes. Most of the time. I won’t say all the time. But most of the time.”

New Light moved to the Tree of Life building about a year ago, when the congregation of about 100 mostly older members could no longer afford its own space, said administrative assistant Marilyn Honigsberg. She said Wax, who lost his wife Sandra in 2016, was always there when services began at 9:45 a.m.

“I know a few of the people who are always there that early, and he is one of them,” she said.

Snider said Wax, who was slightly hard of hearing, was a pillar of the congregation. “He went Friday night, Saturday and Sunday, when there were Sunday services,” said Snider, a retired pharmacist. “If somebody didn’t come that was supposed to lead services, he could lead the services and do everything. He knew how to do everything at the synagogue. He was really a very learned person.”

Snider had just been released from a six-week hospital stay for pneumonia and was not at Saturday’s services.

“He called my wife to get my phone number in the hospital so he could talk to me,” Snider said. “Just a sweet, sweet guy.”

What I Learned At the Conservative Yeshiva

by Dr. Sharon Havis

My Time At The Conservative Yeshiva in Jerusalem This Summer

I had never heard of the Conservative Yeshiva in Jerusalem until I received an email asking if I wanted to join their summer program. They run two summer sessions, each for three weeks. While there are other opportunities for adults to learn in Israel, CY seemed the best fit for me.

The program at CY has Hebrew Ulpan, Jewish studies and volunteer opportunities.

I did the Hebrew Ulpan and Jewish studies program. I really enjoyed my time there. I met Jews from all over the world and there were even Christians who came to study there too. It is a welcoming place with wonderful teachers. You are able to pick and choose the classes that suit you. I chose Halacha, Tanach, Contempory Israeli issues and stories from the Zohar.

I really enjoyed learning at the CY. Aside from meeting people from all the world, being in an environment where it's all about the learning is very special. The rabbis, support staff and coordinators that work at the CY are very helpful, approachable and knowledgeable.

I loved being in Jerusalem and the connection it brings to our history and faith.

I would highly recommend this program if you love to learn and want to connect with other Jews in a safe, academic environment and have the ability to spend 3-4 weeks in Israel.
For more information about The Conservative Yeshiva, contact Rabbi Rubenstein or go to


Sat, January 19 2019 13 Shevat 5779